When it comes to wedding attire and accessories, most people tend to focus on the bride and forget about the groom, who is also a key figure in the wedding ceremony. Especially when it comes to wedding fashion for men, there are now more choices and options available, although not as extensive and diverse as those for the bride. However, there are still a few small points to consider and take note of in order to ensure the most masculine, elegant, and appropriate look for their big day.
Choosing attire suitable for the wedding theme and style
The most fundamental thing is to select clothing and accessories that are appropriate for the chosen venue, overall theme, and style of the wedding. The basic “safe” dress code for grooms is usually a white shirt, black tuxedo, and matching black bow tie or necktie. However, nowadays, there is a wide range of colors available for traditional Vietnamese long robes (áo dài) and wedding suits for grooms, allowing couples to be more creative and choose according to their personal preferences. Grooms are not necessarily limited to dark-colored suits; light colors such as white, gray, or pinstripes are also popular choices, especially for daytime or outdoor weddings to ensure comfort and a relaxed atmosphere.
The rule of dressing to ensure harmony between the groom and bride
One important rule for couples to keep in mind is that the groom’s attire should complement the style of the bride’s wedding gown. A harmonious combination between the couple will avoid color clashes and create a cohesive look on the main stage of the celebration. Additionally, grooms can prepare a few different outfit options to change into during the wedding. For example, one outfit can be worn to greet guests, and another can be worn during the ceremonial exchange of vows to better match the bride’s attire.
For instance, if the bride is wearing a long trailing wedding gown, it is usually accompanied by a white vest for the groom, along with a white shirt and a bow tie or necktie. On the other hand, if the bride chooses to wear a cute and playful short wedding dress, the groom can consider opting for a more relaxed outfit, such as casual pants and a shirt, and add a stylish light-colored blazer or a simple vest instead of a formal tuxedo to create a more comfortable and laid-back feel. Moreover, grooms from the southern region of Vietnam often choose to wear traditional Vietnamese Ao Dai on the engagement day to match with the bride’s attire.
In summary, when it comes to wedding attire and accessories for grooms, it is essential to select outfits that are suitable for the venue, overall theme, and style of the wedding. Harmonious coordination with the bride’s attire is also important to ensure a cohesive look. By considering these factors, grooms can achieve a masculine, elegant, and appropriate appearance on their significant day.
Choosing Appropriate and Well-Fitted Attire for the Groom
Since everyone has a different body shape, it is important to pay attention to selecting a suit that suits your body shape. Typically, if the groom has a tall and broad build, almost all styles of suits will be suitable. However, if the groom is lean, it is advisable to avoid dark colors, and if the groom is more robust, it is best to avoid shiny fabric materials.
Renting a suit may make it difficult to find a perfect fit for your body shape. Therefore, if possible, getting a custom-made wedding suit that fits well and matches your desired design is recommended. Couples should pay attention to the following principles:
- The collar of the suit should lay flat on both sides without folding or puffing up.
- The bowtie (if worn) should be tailored to fit snugly around the collar to prevent shifting.
- The sleeves of the suit jacket should be slightly longer (around 03 – 04 centimeters) than the sleeves of the dress shirt.
- The back of the suit jacket should have a long enough hem to cover the buttocks. If the lower part of the jacket flares out, it means the vest has been tailored too tight.
- The trousers should be tailored to fit comfortably while standing and sitting. The length of the trousers should be long enough to cover about one-third of the dress shoes of the groom.
Choosing Appropriate Footwear
Selecting suitable shoes is important. Genuine leather shoes are often preferred by grooms because they not only enhance the groom’s appearance but also provide comfort when moving around throughout the wedding day. The groom can choose wedding shoes made from cowhide, crocodile leather, or other types of leather based on personal preferences and aesthetic taste. However, regular cleaning is necessary to maintain the durability and shine of the shoes.
When choosing the style and color of wedding shoes, the groom can consider the following tips to match the body characteristics:
- For grooms with a stocky build, shoes with slightly square or round toes are the perfect choice.
- For grooms with a well-proportioned or slightly slim build, it is easier to choose wedding shoes with pointed toes, round toes, or slightly squared toes.
The color of the groom’s shoes should either match or be slightly darker than the color of the wedding attire. For example, with a white suit, the groom can choose brown, white, or tan-colored shoes. The groom can also consider harmonious combinations of shoe and attire colors, such as pairing black wedding shoes with light gray attire or dark brown shoes with dark blue attire. Additionally, the groom can select shoe colors that match the belt color to create a focal point for the outfit.
Using Accessories
Fashion accessories for grooms may not be as diverse as those for brides, but they can still add a personal touch and make the groom look more elegant and distinctive. You should not overlook items such as bowties, neckties, tie clips, pocket square handkerchiefs, belts, watches, or lapel pins. Moreover, grooms can choose something special to incorporate their own personality into their outfit. For example, if you are a music lover, you can add a musical note lapel pin or a treble clef design on the shirt. If you are a sports enthusiast, you can replace formal dress shoes with stylish sneakers to express your personality on this special day.
